Relationships, today, do not exist. Today’s world is so fast, u tend to lose touch. U might not intend to, but u have no time for d most loved ones. U wanna be with that special someone in your life, U wanna let your friends know that they r cared for n that they do mean so much to u. But u have no time!!!

And in today’s world, relationships are not easy to handle. U need to work every way to make them feel that they are cared for n that they are treasured.

Love, today, means that u take care of the smallest of things. Dammit!! Do u have the time to do so? Can u take care that every single thing is dealt with by u yourself??? Is it humanly possible that u alone reach-out and do all the things for your loved ones???

Love does not and can never mean fulfilling formalities. It does not mean that u spend every waking moment with your dear ones. It means to understand the silence of each other. It means to know that even in their busy schedule they care for you. It means to know that wherever they are they love you the same way as they used to.

It just means to be there for each other and to LOVE each other without reservations and without expectations.

LOVE, for one thing, is not formalities. It goes BEYOND that. It goes beyond everything. It is EVERYWHERE. It is in ME!! It is in U!!

It just means to LOVE....

So Love ya....Alwayzzzzzzzzz

Life and its ways!!!

Relationships tend to have a strange way about them. They take a different form with every passing moment. Some may just fade away from your memory, while yet others creep into your life in the most unexpected manner. Some, who already were a part of your life, become the special ones overnight. You really cant point out when, where, how and why relations take an unexpected turn.

There might be people in your life whom you respect and love. There might be people whom you wanna keep with yourselves throughout your life. There might be yet others who stay with you for just a few days and then move on into a special world of their own.

Relationships tend to end one day. There ain’t many that stand the test of time and go on to become immortal. But then, there ain’t anything that is immortal.

The one thing that, I suppose, all should understand is – Life brings us face to face with many people. Its not possible that everyone stay with us throughout. Its even more common to lose the ones whom we actually wanna tie to ourselves. That’s the norm of life. We don’t have to be sad about it. We don’t have to brood on it. You just need to realize that - you gave them the best of what you have. And got everything good that they could give to you. Now, there is nothing left to exchange. And, in this vast wide world there exists not a single thing that is not based on this rule – Give and Take. When there is nothing left to exchange then it dies a silent death. The same relation may be revived when again you have something to exchange. That is how life moves.

Very few people can stay together for long. Its true that we can call such relations as the true ones, the deep ones, which have some meaning to it. Such relations are those which are purely based on true emotions. Maybe love, may be respect, or may be some other. And these are the only things that can be exchanged endlessly. This makes those relations stand out.

Now the other question that pops up in my mind when you speak about love is, whether a guy and a gal can remain just friends and love each other for being just that? I believe that this is possible. But I have come across people who say that guys and gals can never remain just friends. I don’t know why they say that! I have not yet been able to understand the logic behind their statement.

I have people in my life whom I love truly, mostly guys. But that just doesn’t mean that I love them in a sense, where they are no more friends. This crap logic of people is just because they are not mature enough to understand emotions and relations ( that’s what I feel).

We don’t love people for what they are.. we love them for what they make us..when they are with us. We love them for the simple reason that we are ourselves when around them. Because we don’t put up an act when around them. Because that is when we are true to ourselves and others. I think that is when a relation becomes special!!!

When we are true to ourselves and the other person. Relationships really tend to have a way of their own!!

Xpct The Unxpctd!!!

It is soooooo unbelievable.....n soooooo unreal.....Yet it is d truth...the fact of LIFE....
It is the way of life....the MYSTERIOUS way of LIFE....!!!

Can u thnk of lovin smone whom u used to hate frm the core of ur heart??? Can u thnk about being frnds wit smone whom u nvr used to tlk wit???? Can u atleast imagine about tlkng to a person for hrs together when u r actually talkng to him for d 1st time????

Seems to b ver unreal, aint it???...seems to b impossible???

I dunno hw many of u vil agree wit it n hw many vil disagree...

Bt I can say one thing for sure that...I thought this to be really impossible..Bt nw I am forced to say that...."Yes, I can imagine all of the above stated things..."

Because, its not once but many times that I've experienced this. Its not a rare event but an occasional one in ma life. Infact, it is the norm of ma life for smtime nw....

Help has come to me frm the most unthought of corners...Love has been showered upon me by the ones whom I thought to b heartless....I have found a caring and supporting soul in the most hardened of hearts....

Friends on whom I used to bet my life have turned their backs on me (many a times...) And the ones whom I never imagined to be my friends ended being my treasures whom I couldn't afford to lose....

N d most unimaginary thng dat has latest happened in my life is to find smone who actually spks my thoughts...dreams my dream...n thnks d way I do...barring a few differences I cant find nythng dat differntiates me fr him...N dats smthng Icant believe....Its as if I spk to myself...Nw dat doesnt ahppen everyday!!! Does it????

So...wot I can learn frm dis is dat...U shud learn to xpct d unxpctd....b ready to face ny topsy turvy turn in life....n to accept evrythng that cms ur way wit both hands open....coz.....

LIFE IS A MYSTERY DAT NOONE HAS YET UNDERSTOOD!!!

Life Is Wot U Make Of It....!!!!

Life is wot u make of it…..happy if u see it happy [:)] …sad if u see it sad [:(] ….its ur choice…n its ur wish….

U cant blame ur life or ny1 for dat matter for wotevr u feel….coz u made d choice to c it wit tinted glasses….

C life as it is….black n white…don’t tint it wit ur thoughts and imaginations and feelings….watch it play lightly and enjoy evry moment…der is reason to b happy throughout…u jz have to find it….u jz have to realize….

Know it…n there!!!! U r happy!!!! U r smiling!!! [:)]

Beamin wit joy [:D] coz der is evry reason to b so….coz u deserve the best frm life…coz life cms jz once……n ur soul is as pure as dat dewdrop on those tiny leaves…. [;)]

Dont u realize…u r makin a mistake???? [:0] Those tinted glasses are just fake!!!! Throw them away!!! Ur eyes are good nuf wen left to itself….n they show u the true joy of life!!!! Savour it…

N SMILE!!!!!! BIG NUF!!!! [:D]

Coz LIFE is wot U make of it!!!!!

Dats my commitment to LIFE!!!! Smile n b Happy throughout!!!!

[:)] [:D]

Tagged!!!

The RULES:

1. Post these rules

2. Each person tagged must post 8 random facts about themselves

3. Tags should write a journal/ blog of these facts

4. At the end of the post 8 more persons are tagged and named

5. Go to their page and leave a comment telling them they're tagged.

Hey Raves!!! Thnx for distrbng me wit a tag lik this!!! Nwz here's one for those who wanna know abt me!!! All d best for all those who read thru it!!!! To strt wit....

1. M a cmplt emotional FOOL!!! Coz evn aftr hvng gone thru sooooooo many failed relationships (to be read as frndships...) I hv nt learnt that I shudnt be livin my life by the heart....

2. Secondly, m a fulltooooo FLIRT!!!! all my frnds vil agree.....dats an open secret!!!
But, howevr, i hv nt had a single relationship..... dats a truth of ma life!!!

3. M eternally Passionate....bt nt many of them know abt this....they r jz a countable few who hv seen dat side of mine....

4. I may cm across as a very serious gal...bt a vry few know dat m d CRAZIEST gal on earth...n dat I can do the craziest thng u can thnk of....

5. N hey evry1 beware of me!!! coz m extremely possessive!!!! though I dont show it off!!!

6. I am as u thnk of me...if u thnk m a child...dats wot u vil get frm me...childish behaviour....I mirror ur thoughts abt me.....

7. M BLUNT...n dat may hurt ppl...bt i dont care...If u ask me smthng...U vil only get the TRUTH...if u dont want dat dont ask my opinion...

8. Inspite of all these...Inspite of wot i am...u vil only get love frm me...coz i am a mad gal...who breathes, eats and drinks LOVE!!!!

I thnk dats nuf!!!!

Mood: Good bt nt dat good.....bad bt nt dat bad....njoyng....bt have lots of wrk!!!!

Listening: Nothng is gonna chng my love for u....

Reading: hehehe...dis one is quite boring...M reading research papers.....

Eating: LOVE!!!!

Drinking: LOVE!!!!

I tag the following people and hope that this tag will irritate them as it irritated me...and will force them to vomit out some truth abt themselves, so that I can get back to them. :D

Sonali...
David....
Asif....
Arshad...
Ud...
Hari...
Ani...
Pradeep....

Death's Inevitable!!!

This one is for one and all.....

Let me start with a Question....

How many of you have atleast a single person in ur life to whom u have not said what u wanna....????
How many people are there in ur life whom u love/ like/ adore....bt they dont know abt this....?????
I am sure evry1 of u have atleast 1 sch person in ur life....be it ur mom, dad, sisters, brothers, friends, or any girl or guy that u like.....
If u have smthng in ur mind that u wanna tell them.....plz say it out....coz u cant b sure wen life takes dat person away frm u.....
I have had a frnd whom i have unnecessarily ignored.....he used to pester us a lot...with his talks....bt then he used to do it jz for fun.....yet coz i got irritated of it...i stopped tlkng to him....today he is no more in this world.....N nw i feel very guilty for the way i behaved with him....
I feel like sayng Sorry to him....I wanna tell him dat though he used to pester me....he was my frnd...
Bt now it is tooooooo LATE....coz he is no more between us....he will no more be there when we get together as a group.....n dat hurts me a lot.....

So I am writing this to tell one n all that....if there is nythng dat u gotta say to sm1....say it out now....before it is toooo Late....

coz den u can only regret....u can only feel guilty dat u cudnt say wot u wanted to.....

LIFE IS VERY MYSTERIOUS....U never know wot will happen when....So say out loud what u gotta say....be it Sorry....or nythng else....

So this is to all my frnds..... Thnx for being there for me....i treasure u all....each one for theior own special reason.....