Relationships tend to have a strange way about them. They take a different form with every passing moment. Some may just fade away from your memory, while yet others creep into your life in the most unexpected manner. Some, who already were a part of your life, become the special ones overnight. You really cant point out when, where, how and why relations take an unexpected turn.
There might be people in your life whom you respect and love. There might be people whom you wanna keep with yourselves throughout your life. There might be yet others who stay with you for just a few days and then move on into a special world of their own.
Relationships tend to end one day. There ain’t many that stand the test of time and go on to become immortal. But then, there ain’t anything that is immortal.
The one thing that, I suppose, all should understand is – Life brings us face to face with many people. Its not possible that everyone stay with us throughout. Its even more common to lose the ones whom we actually wanna tie to ourselves. That’s the norm of life. We don’t have to be sad about it. We don’t have to brood on it. You just need to realize that - you gave them the best of what you have. And got everything good that they could give to you. Now, there is nothing left to exchange. And, in this vast wide world there exists not a single thing that is not based on this rule – Give and Take. When there is nothing left to exchange then it dies a silent death. The same relation may be revived when again you have something to exchange. That is how life moves.
Very few people can stay together for long. Its true that we can call such relations as the true ones, the deep ones, which have some meaning to it. Such relations are those which are purely based on true emotions. Maybe love, may be respect, or may be some other. And these are the only things that can be exchanged endlessly. This makes those relations stand out.
Now the other question that pops up in my mind when you speak about love is, whether a guy and a gal can remain just friends and love each other for being just that? I believe that this is possible. But I have come across people who say that guys and gals can never remain just friends. I don’t know why they say that! I have not yet been able to understand the logic behind their statement.
I have people in my life whom I love truly, mostly guys. But that just doesn’t mean that I love them in a sense, where they are no more friends. This crap logic of people is just because they are not mature enough to understand emotions and relations ( that’s what I feel).
We don’t love people for what they are.. we love them for what they make us..when they are with us. We love them for the simple reason that we are ourselves when around them. Because we don’t put up an act when around them. Because that is when we are true to ourselves and others. I think that is when a relation becomes special!!!
When we are true to ourselves and the other person. Relationships really tend to have a way of their own!!
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